Erotic Mind Control Techniques To Spice Up Your Bedroom Life

Mind control is basically influencing a subject through your power of suggestion. You suggest in such a manner that allows you to play the influential role and make the other person comply. The subject understands that you’re in control and acts in accordance with your wishes. We’ve heard of it being used in different fields such as medicine and even entertainment. But there is one for your personal lives at home, in your bedroom. It’s known as erotic mind control.

Erotic mind control is basically used to increase arousal in your partner and reduce any inhibitions he/she may have. By using this technique properly, your partner, who will be the subject of your control tactics, will surrender themselves to your dominance for sexual pleasure and in exchange of emotions. This technique can go so far as to making your partner feel that you are dominant enough to control their movements, their thoughts. In fact, it can increase sexual pleasure in your bedroom by freeing your partner from any inhibitions and allowing them to transform their personality into someone who enjoys pleasure to the maximum!

For instance, some of the ways in which women influence their male partners to show them that they are interested is by playing with their hair, licking their lips and even puffing their chests. Most men may be unaware that women are doing this on purpose, but it is some kind of erotic mind controlling technique since it grabs your attention. This makes you respond to her needs and desires.

Such actions can also change your sexual fantasies and make you submit to your partner’s fantasies while even enjoying the experience.

Women are not the only ones who can use erotic mind control to influence their partner. Men can do a number of things as well. They can puff up their chests, check out their clothes, rub against their partners arms gently, stare until they are caught staring, looking deeply enough into their partners eyes to pull them into a kiss. These are all techniques that are used by men for erotic mind control.

This mind control technique can be so influential in bed that it can help improve your climax to a great extent. Of course people in relationships need to have a good sexual relationship with their partners as well. So when things don’t come naturally to you, erotic mind control is something that you resort to.

This mind control technique is a fetish for many adults in relationships. It’s always necessary to explore your sexual desires just as you should explore different possibilities in your daily lives. When you resort to using mind control in your bedroom, it’s mostly common sense that you will need to use. Learn to understand your partners comfort zone and try to understand their body language. Keeping them comfortable is much more important than learning their body language. It is because once someone is comfortable you can influence them to intensify any sexual experiences you have in bed.

Online Dating – The 5 Biggest Mistakes People Are Making And Striking Out

Gentlemen, STOP your engines! Take a deep breath and think about it for a second! What was the first thing you learned back in high school. You know, when girls first started looking good to you. When they stopped being ICCKKY! Play it cool. Don’t seem desperate, and in a way make her wonder: Is he interested in me? Which brings us to our number 1 mistake.

1- Whatever you do, don’t come off desperate. 9 out of the 10 emails I get have these dreaded phrases in them “Please” “I’d give anything to….” “Oh my god I can’t believe” “What will it take” Any guy that seems desperate makes a gal wonder. “Hmm.. Why is this lad having such a hard time meeting women? The famous ” I wonder what’s wrong with him” There must be something wrong with him. Oh well, on to the next guy. DON’T COME OFF DESPERATE!! It’s a huge turn off!

Have you ever tried walking up to a girl in a bar, club or even on the street and pulled your pants down? Of course not. You wouldn’t be reading this. You’d be in prison doing 2-4 for indecent exposure. You know what I’m getting at! Some of you have tried this tactic and no matter how big and beautiful it may be, you struck out! Didn’t you!? The famous number 2..

2- Don’t show ‘em your dingaling prematurely. I once posted an ad in the casual encounters section of Craigslist. The things I saw!! The horror! For example “Hi beautiful, if you like what you see, email me.” “Bet you haven’t seen one this big ever in your life” or the famous “Look how excited your picture made me” Now don’t get me wrong, it’s exactly what I was searching for posting in that section. But you see, women are looking for men. We’re interested in meeting YOU not it. If all we wanted was a weewee, we’d buy one at our local adult erotic shop and avoid the headaches. It’s an encounter with someone new we’re looking for. The excitement of the unknown. Make us want it. Don’t just hand it to us on a platter. We want to work for it a little. And don’t forget the obvious fact that with everything we’ve heard on the news, the stories of women getting raped and killed, we’re a little afraid to meet the men that come off as sexual predators. So please, KEEP IT IN YOUR PANTS UNTIL INSTRUCTED TO DO OTHERWISE!

So you’ve signed up on a random date site. You’ve put in your alias, your gender, and what you’re looking for. And now you avoid filling in the rest. Thinking that your alias “looking4mate72″ says it all and you don’t need to write anything else about yourself. Right? Did it work? No, it didn’t. Of course not. Don’t overlook number 3.

3- Tell us how interesting you are. If there’s nothing interesting about you, how can you get our interest? Make sense? Out of the 400 words you can enter in the field you chose to write “Hello, I’m looking for sex” well good for you, so is everyone else on here but at least they’re making an effort to attract the women. If you can’t think of anything interesting about yourself, chances are we won’t find anything either. These are the guys that go around saying “You know these dating sites are full of it. There’s no women, it’s all a scam. Dating sites are filled with real women dying to meet interesting dudes. There just don’t seem to be enough of them. Be interesting, and if you’re not, make something up! Make some sort of effort. With today’s technology we’ve been spoiled a little. But when it comes to meeting women, you have to spend a little time and energy. That’s the beauty. But if you can’t grasp this, don’t worry, I’m sure you’ll be able to download some beautiful woman on some torrent site in no time. We’re almost there. In the meantime…! keep…. you know.

Uploading your mug shot will probably not get too much attention from the sane women. You know the ones I’m talking about. No smile. The guy is starring into his webcam. You’re not sure if you’re still at the dating site or you accidentally clicked into the FBI’s most wanted list. A picture says a thousand words, make them good words.. number 4.

4- When it’s time to upload your pictures, don’t just turn on your cam and snap away. These have to be the dullest pictures I see. (I’d rather see their johnson, #2). Upload some real photos. A picture of you with your dog, you with friends, you at the beach. Something interesting! Somewhere you’ve been, something you’ve done. You, staring into your webcam, is not interesting at all. No one is going to sit there and go through 34 pictures you just took with your webcam in the dark. Creepy! You need to show us a side of you that’s going to grab our attention! Attraction is what it’s all about. NO MORE WEBCAM SHOTS!

Last but not least.. You’re going to hate this one I promise. But it’s as important or more important than the first 4… Pick a site you like, and become a member.

5- If you’re not willing to pay a few bucks a month to be a member, chances are I’m picking up the bill at the restaurant, bar, club, hotel or motel. The truth is, women rarely browse profiles of the free members that logged in once or twice. We like a little stability. We want to meet someone who’s been verified by the site. Avoids us a lot of trouble. What you’re telling women is; You’re not cheap, You’re a verified user, It’s safe to come in contact with you, you’re serious about meeting someone and again YOU’RE NOT CHEAP! If you can’t afford the membership, how are you going to meet up with me? Where will we be going? You can continue posting on those free classifieds “Anyone want me to pick her up with my car and go at it?” all you want, but you’ll be spending lots of lonely nights. And if it does work, I don’t want to see the gal that responds to that ad.

In conclusion, meeting women online is not that different from meeting women offline. Always remember that these are the same women you see in your everyday life. The difference is, it’s a lot easier to break the ice. So, why are you not succeeding at making that encounter? Is it because there are no women online? Of course not. There are as many women online as there are men. Avoiding these 5 deadly mistakes will increase your chances dramatically. Take advantage of the fact that most men are making these mistakes. There are plenty of fish in the E-SEA. Just remember to use the right bait. I’m currently on 3 dating sites myself. There are lots of single girls still looking for someone interesting to hook up with. I’m one of them. So please, if you come across me, don’t whip it out in my face, unless I ask you to!

Science Supports the Need for Casual Sex Flirting

Casual sex movies make it all seem so easy. Two people meet up at a bar, share a quick drink, and then are seen passionately bouncing off hallway walls as they try to get each other’s clothes off. But is it really all so simple? And if it is, then why aren’t all bar room hallways bursting at the seams with horny hookups? The answer is…they’re not and the science behind attraction and a woman’s desire for casual sex gives a little insight into why.

In several studies, the original one conducted in 1989 and a follow-up one conducted more recently, both men and women were asked if they would have casual sex with a platonic friend – a friends with benefits arrangement – or if they would have casual sex with a complete stranger. In both studies it showed that men were more likely to agree to a quickie than their female counterpart. So if you are a man and want to get a more favorable response to the question, “Will you go to bed with me?” there are few basic things that you need to understand about the women who are most likely to say yes.

Whether you meet a potential partner through an adult online dating site, through a friend, or in a pub, the basics of getting that person to agree to a one night stand or no strings attached relationship include a little flirting. Yes, even with casual sex you need a little flirting.

Science has suggested two theories explaining what women look for. The first theory reaches back to our caveman roots and the evolutionary reasons for having sex – survival of the species. In this explanation the woman needs to be choosy about their hook up mate since they expect them to stick around to help change diapers and buy formula. They want a man they can depend on.

The second theory is one that we can better get our minds around when talking about casual sex and that is the Pleasure Theory. We are all hardwired to pursue pleasure. This is the type of wiring that you guys need to stand up and take notice of. Yes, woman will be more likely to say yes to a casual relationship when they perceive that they are going to get a little pleasure from it…or more likely, a lot of pleasure. Women want to orgasm and they will be more willing to give it a shot with a guy (or girl) that is likely to provide it.

So let’s put the two theories together and create a better mousetrap. Guys, if you want casual sex then you need to convince a woman that they can depend on you to give them an orgasm!

How is this done? Well, to discover that you may just want to follow me and get some advice on some good old fashioned flirting and seduction. That is something that never goes out of style no matter if it’s casual sex or true love sex that you are after.

Vintage Adult Comics

As how they are obviously referred to, vintage adult comics are a reflection of ancient era or golden times. These are comics released in the 13th and 14th century and these days, they are difficult to get hold of. Other collectors aren’t just limiting themselves to the 1940-50′s collections, though. They follow until the 1970 releases of these comics.

Hundreds of comics were circulated in the golden age of magazines and literature. These materials were published using old kinds of papers. Vintage, as we hear of it, sounds valuable and rare. And yes, it definitely is rare to find some collections of books, magazines, comics or anything done five to seven decades ago.

The young adolescent and adult groups have let loose their inhibitions of browsing over these vintage adult comics that flaunt boldness, sexiness, sophistication and seventh heaven. The erotic side of life is presented in its creatively enticing manner through sexy pictures of women and passionate scenarios of couples in love and lust. There is no denying that men are continuous followers of these kinds of readable stuff. Sensual women are even getting open-minded to explore the so-called hobby but rarely do they declare such actuation.

As vintage comics like Batman, Flash Gordon, Superman, Green Lantern and Spiderman gained popularity back then, the emergence of vintage adult comics followed through their successes. Instead of heroic and funny themes, love and passion are usual concepts of the adult category of magazines and comics, that’s why they are for adults only. Thought not many people recognize it, comics are a serious business, too, just like movies, bars, Internet porn, among others.

Since the 1970′s, the worth of vintage adult comics has consistently multiplied due to their huge demand from investors and collectors. If you collect any of these vintage stuffs, you are likely to earn a good bit of dollars as they are usually appraised as valuable. It seems like a standard notion that if you own something vintage, you can benefit largely.

The approach employed in vintage adult comics is dependent on culture and lifestyle of a certain country it is being released. There are those that are too erotic that may not be appreciated by some. Basically, they’re identified to be of European, Japanese and American themes.

Vintage adult comics are usually of erotic conceptions and graphics, sometimes identified as artistic outputs of pornography. The sexuality of both men and women in the same setting is depicted as real as it can be to educate and stimulate the senses of the readers. Sensuality in a human being is but normal as long as it is done within grounds of matrimony. However, the world has accepted reality that bites, thus there isn’t any critical judgment aimed to those enjoying the art of making love out of marriage.

Erotic Leather Lingerie

When one thinks of leather lingerie, erotic and sensuous come to mind. This is the time-born concept that sells all women’s lingerie; this is the time born concept that plays on all adult movies and adult magazines; this is in fact the time born concept that every woman and man is instilled with from the moment of puberty.

Leather lingerie is not like any other lingerie. It is not the traditional type of lingerie that would simply compliment a woman’s body figure or make her feel beautiful and sensuous like only a woman could feel. It is instead a mischievous and playful bedroom attire; it is meant to both stimulate and tease. And it certainly is not the type of lingerie that anyone would buy or wear the sole intention of going to sleep!

It takes a woman who is confident of herself and appreciative of her own body to wear any type of lingerie. It is probably the greatest test for a woman however, to wear it. This is because you cannot hide yourself or be the demure woman in leather lingerie; it is the only type of lingerie that really ‘showcases’ a woman’s body. This type lingerie, unlike other lingerie, releases all inhibitions and repressed sexualities. It brings out a side of most adults that are often suppressed or hidden from even the ones we hold dearest to us. It therefore takes a woman who is sure of her own self to wear leather lingerie.

But in addition to being confident of her own self, the woman who chooses to wear leather linger must also be fully confident about her relationship, or at least come to an agreement with both parties involved. A woman often cannot and will not release her greatest fears to her partner until she is fully comfortable in his presence. But even today is a time that is filled with much sexual awareness and acceptance of our individual sexualities, we still often find women who are not secure enough in their own skins to be the creative and stimulating woman that most men fantasize about; and leather lingerie is most obviously the starting point and ending point of all erotic fantasies among both men and women (whether or not they admit it is another story to tell).

Leather lingerie could also come in a variety of styles for a variety of shapes (as with any other type of clothing). Some of the more common ones include bustiers for women who are top heavy and wish enhance the appeal, corsets which can pull the waistline in to add definition to most lacking figures, teddies and thongs for the woman who is bottom heavy and wishes to emphasis the point, and even two-piece sets and various bound wears (sometimes included within the teddy line) for the adventurous and daring. Which do you think would suit you best.

Can a Sex Instructional Video Help Improve Your Love Life?

Whether you’re young or old, rich or poor, sex is probably one of the most talked about, if not controversial, topics in the whole world. Everyone needs sex, not just for procreation, but for pleasure and strengthening of a relationship as well. You can’t talk about romantic love without including sex in the equation so if you’re currently in a relationship and you want to make your love story last, you should definitely start working on your sex life. But how do you start? Though you’ll find a lot of great ideas online on how you can spice up your love life, there is really only one way that can help you take your sex life up a notch. Want to know what a sex instructional video can do for your relationship? Then don’t hesitate to read on.

Assuming that you and your lover both have open minds towards this subject, a sex instructional video can do wonders for your relationship. But do bear in mind that this option isn’t for everyone. If you’ve just started dating, make sure to have an open discussion with your partner on how he or she feels about using this sort of videos. This way, you’ll be able to avoid causing offense or any awkward moments that may lead to future misunderstandings in the relationship.

Helps You Become A Better Lover

Sure a sex instructional video may not be a necessity in making a relationship work, but it can help you make it stronger. A sex instructional video can help you become a better lover as it can provide you with tips and techniques that will make every sexual encounter worthy to be remembered. From oral techniques to different sex positions, you’ll be able to reinvent yourself as the ultimate lover once you’re done watching the video.

Allows You To Open Your Line Of Communication

Another benefit that you can get from incorporating the sex instructional video into your bedroom routine is that you’ll get a much more open communication line between you and your partner. Just by watching the video together, you’ll feel much more comfortable expressing what you want sexually and your partner will be more open to tell you what he or she would like to try out. When used properly, a sex instructional video will be able to help you form a stronger bond emotionally and physically.

If you’re interested in purchasing sex instructional videos, there are a number of ways that you can easily get your hands on them. First off, check out what your local adult bookstores or sex shops have on offer. Although these shops usually have an extensive line up of different adult videos that you can choose from, make sure that you choose a sex instructional video and not just a porn flick. If you’re not comfortable with the idea of visiting these shops or you just don’t have the time, start your search online instead. The great thing about purchasing online is that you not only have access to a wide array of different titles, but you’ll also get to shop anonymously.

Bondara – The Best Online Store For Your Sex Toy Purchases

When speaking of sex toys and aids, there might be a good shop near you. However, when it comes to the huge selection and efficiency of the products, there is only one best name. That is one of UK’s most successful online sotres, which is Bondara..

As we know, different ages and sexes have different needs when it comes to sex toys. The good news is that Bondara knows well about this. This is the reason why the range of their products are awesome from vibrators, dildos, male and women sex toys, sexy lingerie, bondage gears, anal toys to sex gears. Actually, the collection of products in this local store has come out to be over a million already.

Why Go For Bondara

Besides the convenience in shopping that Bondara provides, there are a lot of other great benefits that this shop offers. Just like other online stores, you can take advantage of great discounts and price slash offs from the items that you want simply by using a Bondara offer code, Bondara discount codes or the promotional code that you can get from money-off vouchers for Bondara. Here, check out these great offers Bondara has in store for you:

Delivery. One of the best reasons as to why you need to stay with Bondara is their way of delivery. For one, they have low shipping rates and can even offer free delivery service if you order reach up to 39.99 Euros. What’s more, this online shop is very discreet about the client’s privacy. The package you will receive will not contain any logo of Sex products. Indeed, talking about affordability and privacy, Bondara has it both to offer you. Much more, they have a same day shipping policy.

Reputation. This online shop is indeed a trusted online company that undergoes monitoring from SafeBuy. With this, you can have peace of mind when doing your shopping here.

Billing. The good news about this shop is that even in your bills, they still think about your privacy. Actually, you will see the name Nagook Ltd reflecting on your credit card or bank account statement rather than Bondara.

With all these, you can leave your doubts about trusting Bondara for your purchase of sex toys and aids. Indeed, if you try to shop here, there are a lot more great things you can discover from this shop.

Where To Get Discounts

What is amazing about Bondara is that they offer cheap sex toys for different needs. The website has a section dedicated to the cheapest of all their products in the market. Imagine, their bestsellers such as the Ultimate Jessica Rabbit Waver, MasterB Vibro-Cate Harrington, and Purple Pearl Rabbit Vibrator can all be purchased in less than 40 Euros.

Moreover, at a regular basis, there are Bondara offer code, money off vouchers for Bondara, Bondara UK discount code that you can make the best use of. To get any kind of Bondara offer code, what you only need to do is become a member of the company. Then, you can receive great discounts to all of your future purchases in the site. If you provide your email, you can always receive the shop’s newsletter containing special Bondara UK discount codes. You can also get these Bondara offer code, money off vouchers for Bondara, Bondara UK discount code by searching them in the Internet.

Indeed, what else can you be looking for in a sex toy shop? With the wide selections, convenience, affordability, and privacy they promise, everything you need is already in here.

Have Fun With Adult Dating Services

When it comes to the dating game, a number of things should be considered as adult dating isn’t the simplest thing in the world; for example, the title itself doesn’t mean have fun while dating adults, but it represents the erotic aspect of the dating game. Still, the important part of the game is to have fun by allowing your naughty side to come out and play; women looking for fun may wear tight clothing or low cut tops to reveal a bit of cleavage and show men what they are missing. A more exposed area of the body would be the neck region, which is highly sensitive and the right kiss can give women sensations that leave them wanting more. However, adult dating isn’t purely about the need for sexual satisfaction but exploring other people’s bodies, fantasies and different types of pleasure.

When you’re in a club or bar on the weekend, you enjoy your time out with friends, colleagues etc; in the same way, you can become the perfect date by relaxing and enjoying what you are doing, rather than focusing on why you are here; good dancers and cooks love cooking and dancing, this is why they are good at their professions. A more simple explanation of this would be that when you love and enjoying doing what you do, you tend to spend more time and effect doing it to get the best results possible. Look at the way gamers play video games, they spend endless hours in front of the t.v trying to get a higher score because they know the results will be rewarding; similarly, adult dating should be enjoyed and seen as a fun encounter- who knows what it could lead to. You may even end up meeting your life partner!

Although a lot of you date to meet your prospective life partners, date because it’s fun, not because you have to. If it is not fun, then would you bother doing it?! No right? If you don’t enjoying dating then don’t just sit through another gruesome date, change it by doing something different. For those of you, who want to cut to the chase and forget the wining and dining part, try erotic adult dating, which is exactly what it says on the tin-EROTIC. It’s a form of dating that doesn’t require dating; a bedroom, sexy lingerie and explicit fantasies will do.

Just a few last points for you to consider- when you date because you enjoy it you allow others to feel good about themselves, also giving you a more than likely chance of a second or third date. When you represent yourself as a fun and happy person, other people will love to bag a date you and before you know it, you’ll be the most popular person in town. If this article sounds too good to be true, than go ahead and try enjoying your next date, you’ll come back thanking the author.

Erotic Costumes – How to Find the Best Erotic Costumes For Halloween This Year

Lots of women are looking to buy erotic costumes for Halloween these days. The variety of sexy Halloween costumes available has exploded in the last few years due to the demand that has arisen for them. So now it is easy to find a costume that you both love and will feel super-hot in.

There are many stores that carry erotic costumes for women, but some are better than others. When you are shopping, see if you can find some of the brands that people have written good reviews about online.

If you are going to spend money on erotic costumes, you definitely want to get something that is going to last. Sexy Halloween costumes can be reused if they are of a good quality and taken care of. You can wear them for another Halloween, or you can wear them around the house if you are in the mood for some naughty games.

No matter what sexy Halloween costumes you are picturing, you can probably find something that is at least close to what you want. The options you have are as wide as any other type of costume now. Career costumes are always popular, such as policewomen and nurses. Other popular erotic costumes for women include sports-themed outfits and “bug” outfits such as ladybugs, bees, and spiders.

While many of these costumes come with everything you need, you can always buy more accessories for them to make them even more unique. Hats, wands, wings, and wigs can be bought at just about any costume store. You should also find an awesome sexy pair of shoes to put with your outfit.

One of the major keys to getting the perfect erotic costume is to start shopping early. This way you can hit a few different stores and figure out what you really want without being worried the perfect costume will be gone by the time you get back. This Halloween, get something sexy and knock everyone off their feet!

Why Do I Read Erotic Stories?

Some of us have been nurtured to have a room of our own away from the private room and dangerous-to-the-ear sounds that our parents’ room emit. If it doesn’t bother you to imagine your parents doing the deed – well, I do. Some of you may have been curious what has been happening to the other room that you are so tempted to peek. Not to spy on your folks, of course! But admit it, once in your libido-driven days, you gave in to the opportunity of peeking what your roommate was enjoying that night.

Wise people say: “curiosity kills the cat.” Well, we don’t want to get killed nor we are cats! As adults, we have the propensity to compare our romancing skills with colleagues, associates and peers. At your legal age, the ethical professional person that you are, it would be a shame to catch you to be a peeping Tom.

Reading online erotic stories are just the solution. You may end up wondering if what you have read is true but nevertheless, it eliminates the danger of you being caught peeping your room mate’s night-time sack activities. We cannot also discount the fact that we discover things that are possible to do and well, expect that the next time you had the opportunity, you will eventually try to do the same, right?

By reading these type of stories, our brain is stimulated to develop neurons. It enhances our imagination and triggers our dopamine receptors. Ok…That’s a technical term. Dopamine are brain chemicals that gives you that good feeling. Yes. The same feeling you felt when you released all that pent-up heat that you have collected that week. It is also the same feeling that is evoked when you light up that first cigarette in the morning or drink that fresh brewed coffee. Reading erotic stories are like reading porn magazines without actually buying them. Isn’t that a good thing? You save up on your money, and still get sexually energized from the story you have read.

You also get new ideas that can make your night-time or romancing activities bloom, or let’s just say, be productive! What an exciting way to get your hormones raging! By simply reading one story, you may want to have the love of your life beside you and that adds spice to the relationship. Your mate will always be wondering where you get your bedroom skills, especially when you have projected to be the busy, serious type of person that you are.

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